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You already know the problem, you just didn't want to admit it.
Think of Broken Steel as a continuation of the main quest, rather than a side quest. Advancing past level 20 happens the same way as normal, however. The quests from BS don't occur until after the main quest in Fallout 3 (before you got any expansions) ends.